A stressful couple months!

Hi everyone, I hope that you are all well!
I have to get things off my chest and just vent a little here:
In September, my dad was diagnosed with a rare caner and was sent home on hospice. Before the first visit he wanted to get things put away and cleaned up some, so I went over to help get that all done. While I was there, he asked me to get a hold of my oldest 2 children and have them come and see him. So, a couple of weeks later my son and his family came and then a couple of weeks later my daughter and her hubby came. He got to see his 3 great grands and find out that he would be great grandpa again, he told my daughter that he would never get to see her baby:( I went over the next week and he was really bad, he couldn’t walk across that floor without about falling and I told the hospice social worker that I didn’t think that he should be left alone anymore and she agreed, this made my sister and her daughter very upset, I let them know that they needed to do what needed done, he paid all their bills and they treated him bad, almost to the point of elder abuse and neglect. I told the social worker that I had concerns about them not doing what he needed done and she agreed that I had a valid complaint. She was glad that I was there and told me that she was wondering when I would get there to do things, I told her that they wouldn’t let me be there much and that they didn’t want me to talk to anyone or voice any concerns. Well, by the end of that week, he was almost completely bedridden. The next week I couldn’t go over there until Thursday because of my own family and things that they had to do, I was on my way over there that day and got a call that my sister didn’t think that he was breathing and I told her I would be right there. When I got there, I checked for pulse and found none so I called the hospice and the nurse came over and did all the things she had to do. We did a memorial for him the next Monday and my daughter and son in law came to be here for it.
Then, last week my daughter went for her DR appointment and they couldn’t find the heartbeat of the baby and they told her that it stopped growing at 6 1/2 weeks:(
It is time for us to all heal and get de-stressed. My daughter and son in law are doing as well as they can with the news that they have gotten and I am praying that they will be able to have a baby or adopt one, in God’s time.
Thank you for listening!!




  • Comments

    1. Profile photo of Pat Z Anthony
      Pat Z Anthony

      This is tough for any family to have to deal with, especially learning about the baby. Those who are older have lived their lives. Young couples are just beginning theirs.

    Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *